Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Please excuse the absence

First off, many apologies for the long gap in my posting. Since I stopped detailing my food every day, I must admit that I'm struggling a bit with what I want to "do" with my blog. I had plenty of thoughts of shutting it down, updating it several times a week, and/or everything in between.

One of the challenges about having a blog that's so financially focused is that I feel like I have to keep it anonymous. And I feel like that anonymity makes it very challenging to create a voice for the blog. I have a more fitness focused blog that is not anonymous, & I love posting pictures (although I'm a terrible photographer), and feeling like I can really be myself in that forum.

All of that said, posting about my finances absolutely keeps me more on track, which I love. It helps me stay motivated to reach my goals, and to pay attention to what I'm spending, and how I'm spending it. I find so much motivation in reading all of your blogs & seeing your creative ways to cut spending.

Even though April is mid-way through, I do have a few goals I'm focused on this month.

  1. Run a 5K. This was a 2009, 2010, and 2011 yearly goal, & I'm finally planning to do it. My race is this Sunday. :-)
  2. Run 30 miles in April.
  3. Plan a menu for the remaining two+ weeks of the month.
  4. Lose 3 more pounds by May, which will officially put me in the 140s!
  5. Track my spending for the second half of the month.
Hope you are all doing well!

Monday, March 28, 2011

Taxes & other miscellany

Sorry I've been off track with my posting lately. I was out of town for a couple of days, busy doing our taxes, & trying to get our summer planned out. I've just discovered that our preschool will be closed in August. Hmmmmmm.. . . That should make childcare very interesting this summer. I've looked into other possibilities, but so far they are all half day programs & we need something full time. Another day, another challenge.

I must admit. . . I have not been tracking my spending this month, and judging by my credit card statement, that's caught up with me. I haven't made any huge purchases (still on the clothing/shoes/makeup spending ban for the year), but the money is definitely trickling out at a faster rate than I would like. Now is the time for me to get back on the wagon & change that. Tracking is important for me to feel like we're spending our money on things that we value, versus spending it mindlessly & frivolously.

On that note, we owe nearly $10K in taxes. Yikes. M & I are going to discuss options for paying that tonight. Always a good time.

I'll be back with my end of the month wrap up shortly. Hope the beginning of spring is treating you all very well!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

3/23 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A - what did you have for breakfast this morning? Are you a die hard breakfast eater like I am? Today I had a little bit of sauteed spinach (had to use the last of  giant Costco bag) with an egg on an English muffin. Plus 1/2 a laughing cow. Yum.

I'm planning to change my blog up a bit & just posting the calorie recaps + workout & fruits/vegetables. It will still keep me on track, but I don't want to put anyone to sleep with the minutiae of my life.

Total calories = 1550 :-(

Workout:
15 minutes running
30 minutes elliptical

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

3/22 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A -

Food:
Breakfast:
oatmeal + 1/2 tbsp peanut butter + blueberries - 180
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Snack:
Protein bar - 170

Lunch (Panera):
Half fuji chicken salad + Half mediterranean veggie sandwich - 560

Snack:
nectarine - 80

Dinner:
Balsamic chicken spinach salad with cottage cheese as the dressing - 350
1/2 serving nuts/dried fruit - 75

Total = 1445
Fruit/vegetables = 3/6

Workout:
30 minutes on the treadmill - ran 1.5 miles, walked 1.2 miles

One 401K loan is paid off!

I am very, very excited to finally be able to say that my 401K loan is paid off! It took forever for the money to clear various places & for Fidelity to finally show a zero balance on the loan/and credit my 401K with the funds, but it's all straightened out. Yes!


Loan History:
As background, we each took out a loan in March of last year for $49,500 (x2 - one out of each 401K) and we used that money to prepay part of our home mortgage, so we could combine both home loans (vacation property & primary residence) into one loan to secure a far better rate. The loans were absolutely the right choice from a financial perspective, but I hated having it around. Unfortunately, the loan terms did not allow for any additional payments unless you had enough to pay the entire remaining balance, which made it hard to chip away at it.

Paying it off:
The payment for paying off the loan (a little over $41K) was made by cobbling together money from various sources. I had a savings account where I stashed all extra funds, which totaled about $15K. But, the big money came from an unexpected bonus M received. The money I was able to save came directly from cutting spending in other areas: hair cuts for me, random shopping, meals out, trimming back groceries, and really just paying much closer attention to where our money went. I'm shocked by how much we were able to save just by really tracking how we were spending our income.

Net worth update:
Paying off this loan is a double whammy for our net worth. Not only does it decrease our liabilities by a huge chunk, but it also immediately transfers over to our assets, because the funds were automatically applied to my 401K, resulting in a $80Kish growth in our net worth. Now that's the kind of progress I like to see!

What's up next:
Next up on our list of financial goals is to pay off M's 401K loan. It's for the same amount, and the same rules apply with regard to pre-payment. His balance is currently hovering around $41K. We're going to apply the same savings principles that we used for my loan, and also apply any unexpected funds (from work, investments, etc) to our savings account until we have enough to pay it off.

After that, our goal is to clear our 2nd mortgage, which has a current balance of $185K.

Our financial situation will be undergoing a few shifts in the next several years. One of our biggest expenses at the moment is child care for the boys (we're paying about $2K/month - down from an all time high of $4K/month when they were infants). My oldest son will enter Kindergarten in the fall, and my youngest son will be in Kindergarten in fall of 2012. Both of these things will eventually reduce our childcare payments to about $600/month, as we will still need after school care. We're toying with the idea of purchasing a rental property once we clear the 401K loans & our second mortgage. I'd like to create other income streams, and now seems like an excellent time to invest in real estate. We qualify for excellent rates, we have stable incomes, and property value has dropped drastically.

Our ultimate goal is to hit a net worth of $1M by the end of 2012. If we pay off M's 401K loan soon, that will create another increase of $80K (again, the reduction in our liabilities combined with the money immediately transferring to our assets), which makes the number look doable.

Wrap Up:
I'll be posting a big end of the month wrap up as usual, but I couldn't resist updating our net worth for today.

Net worth as of 3/1 - $815,065
Net worth as of 3/22 - $896,594

Total change in net worth: +$81,529!!

Monday, March 21, 2011

3/21 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A - happy spring! The weather was lovely over the weekend (cold but clear) & I'm very ready for spring to arrive & an opportunity to be outside more. What's your favorite season?

Weight = 152.8. Down a tiny bit from my weigh in earlier last week

Food:
Breakfast:
1 piece toast + egg + 1/2 laughing cow - 170
coffee + milk + fiber - 30
strawberries - 30

Snack:
dried fruit/nuts - 150

Lunch:
edamame - 150
egg salad (made with greek yogurt - no mayo) - 75
Dr Kracker - 100
roasted vegetables - 50
bread with tomato/cheese - 100

Snack:
frozen yogurt + mini oreos + granola - 180

Dinner:
cottage cheese - 100
roasted broccoli - 50
1 pc wheat bread with egg salad - 150
edamame - 145


Total = 1400
Fruit/Vegetables = 3/5

36 minutes on the treadmill. 3.10 miles running, .14 walking.

Sunday, March 20, 2011

3/20 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A - What's on your menu for the week? Are you trying any new recipes?
Weight = weighing in on Monday

Food:
Breakfast:
english muffin + 1/2 laughing cow + egg - 230
coffee + milk + fiber - 30
strawberries & blueberries - 60

Snack:
fruit smoothie - 160

Lunch:
handful of nuts - 80
cottage cheese - 100
edamame - 150
1/2 banana wheat germ muffin - 80

Snack:
pear - 80
Dinner:
1 homemade taco salad - 300
Skinny margarita- 100

Total = 1370
Fruit/Vegetables = 6/5

Workout:
30 minutes on the treadmill running/walking
30 minutes on the elliptical

Menu Plan Sunday (3/20/11)

Lunches:Generally I take leftovers from the night before, plus add things like: edamame, fruit, vegetables + hummus, & nuts. Today I also made a healthy version of egg salad for my lunches (eggs, fat free greek yogurt, celery, mustard, pickles, salt & pepper). I plan to bring that with vegetables, crackers, etc. this week.

I baked banana wheat germ muffins for M's breakfasts. He's a huge muffin fan. :-)

Dinner:
Sunday - Homemade tacos
Monday -Italian baked chicken and pastina (from the freezer - I always make two of this dish)
Tuesday - Baked tilapia & sweet corn risotto (from the feezer - I made the risotto a few weeks ago & stashed the leftovers in the freezer) 
Wednesday - Baked shells with pesto, mozzarella & meat sauce (from the freezer - I made this last week & it makes a huge quantity)
Thursday  - M is out of town. I'll have grilled chicken on a salad.
Friday - M is out of town. I'll have any remaining leftovers or grilled chicken salad.
Saturday - We'll be out of town.
Sunday - Salads with balsamic chicken (we skip the dressing/bacon part & use our own) -

Saturday, March 19, 2011

3/19 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A - any big weekend plans? My parents are in town to continue the celebration for N's 4th birthday. He's thrilled. :-)

**Wake up early to workout before soccer practice**
Food:
Breakfast:
1 pc wheat toast with peanut butter - 200
1 homemade waffle - 175
strawberries & blueberries - 80
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Lunch:
1/4 burger + fruit- 200
2 nuts - 20

Dinner:
2 glasses of wine - 160
1 piece pizza - 300
side salad - 200

Subtotal - 1365
Fruit/vegetables = 4/4

Friday, March 18, 2011

3/18 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A - This can apply to both money & healthy eating, I've found, so how do you recover from a bad day? Do you jump back on your plan (be it saving or eating well, etc) the next day, or does it take you a while to get over your own frustration and slipping? I'm more of the former, but I've certainly struggled with this.

Food:
Breakfast:
1 piece wheat toast + 1 tbsp peanut butter - 200
1/2 pear - 40
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Lunch (out):
1/2 Mexican chopped salad - 300
6 tortilla chips with salsa - 100

Dinner:
Leftover Mexican chopped salad - 300
wine - 160
1 pc chicken - 110


Total = 1240
Fruit/vegetables = 1/6

Workout = 38 minutes running/walking. 3.25 miles.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

3/17 - Fitness & Nutrition

Happy St. Patrick's Day to everyone! Any big plans? It's my son's birthday, so we're going out to dinner. His choice was Greek food, so we'll be eating Gyros & then taking the boys to swimming lessons. We're party animals. :-)

Weight: unknown. Will weigh again on Monday.

Food:
Breakfast:
oatmeal with strawberries - 230
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Snack:
1 pc cheese - 100

Lunch:
soup & sandwich (Panera) - 550

Snack:
1/2 luna bar - 95
Trail mix - 150

Dinner:
Greek salad + 10 fries - 300
1/3 small piece of cake - 100

Total = 1555. I had a not great workout today, so I comforted myself with a bag of trail mix. Foolish mistake, because it pushed me over my calories for the day. Better success tomorrow!

Fruits/Vegetables = 3/5

Workout = 20 minutes running/walking

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

3/16 - Fitness & Nutrition Update

Weight = 153. Wooooo!!!!!!!!!!!! I did it! First mini goal is achieved. :-) I've lost 10 pounds since January 1st, and I've officially lost all of the weight that i gained during my pregnancy with my second child. One day before his 4th birthday, which was my goal. Next up, losing the 9 pounds I didn't lose between pregnancies. And getting back into the 140s. Can't wait! Can you tell that I'm excited?

Food:
Breakfast:
1 piece wheat toast + 1/2 laughing cow + egg - 170
banana & strawberries - 60
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Snack:
granola bar - 140

Lunch:
hummus/cheese/turkey wrap + salad - 300
frozen yogurt + mini oreos - 200

Dinner:
Chicken over 1/2 serving of pasta - 350
salad + light dresing -30

Subtotal - 1270
Fruit/Vegetables = 2/4

Workout: 38 minutes walking/running 3 miles.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

3/15 - Fitness & Nutrition Update

Q&A - The month is 1/2 way over. How are you doing with your March goals? I'm doing well with the fitness-oriented goals, & still working on the financial side. I am (im)patiently waiting for the funds to clear my 401K loan payoff, so I can officially check that loan off the balance sheet, update my tickers & change our net worth in my financial tracking. Can't wait!

Weight = 153.2 So close to my mini goal of 153!

Food:
Breakfast:
Greek yogurt + granola + strawberries - 250
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Snack:
1/2 luna bar - 95

Lunch:
1 Dr Kracker + 1 tsp peanut butter - 140
spinach salad with chicken & cottage cheese - 275

Snack:
2/3 vanilla ice with nonfat milk - 200
Dinner:
spinach salad - 275
1/2 banana + 1 bite chocolate/peanut butter
roasted broccoli - 50

Total - 1385
Fruit/Vegetables = 2/6

Workout:
40 minutes running/walking. Ran 3 miles today without stopping!

Monday, March 14, 2011

3/14 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A: - Do you have a favorite wine, or other adult beverage? M found my favorite wine at Costco last night, so I'm very pleased. It's Villa Maria Sauvignon Blanc, & it's AMAZING. Love that stuff. Plus, it's only $10.99 at Costco, which is all kinds of a good deal. :-)

Weight = 153.8. Only .8 of a pound until I hit my mini goal. Can't wait! Next weigh in is on Thursday.

Food:
Breakfast:
1 piece wheat toast + 1/2 laughing cow + morningstar sausage - 180
1/2 Greek yogurt cup - 70
coffe + milk + fiber - 30

Snack:
1 luna bar - 190

Lunch:
cottage cheese - 100
Mini turkey sandwich + salad - 400
frozen yogurt + mini oreos - 150
Dinner:
Brussel sprouts - 100
Wine - 80
Chicken dijonnaise - 150
Total = 1450
Fruit/Vegetables = 0/5

No workout. Rest day.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

3/13 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A: If you have a spouse/significant other, what's your favorite way to spend a "date night"? I'm easy. As long as there's a bottle of wine & a meal I don't have to cook, I'm in! Actually, I love to cook, but don't like the cleanup part. What about you? :-)

Weight = 154.2. Only 1.2 pounds from my mini goal. Yeah!

Food:
Breakfast1 pc wheat bread with 1 egg & 1/2 laughing cow - 170
honey dew - 20
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Snack:
smoothie - 150

Lunch (just got back from a big workout & wanted to eat everything in our house):
1 pc pizza - 300
cottage cheese - 100
cashews - 80

Snack:
hummus + celery + pita chips - 120
strawberries - 50

Dinner:
Parmesan chicken spinach salad - 250
wine - 140
Subtotal = 1430
Fruit/Vegetables = 5/5

Workout:
42 minutes on the treadmill (ran/walked 3.25 miles)
30 minutes on the bike

Menu Plan Sunday (3/13/11)

Lunches:Generally I take leftovers from the night before, plus add things like: edamame, fruit, vegetables + hummus, & nuts.

I improvised a lot last week & made the balsamic chicken into spinach salads several times last week. As a result, you will see a few items reappearing on this week's menu.

Dinner:
Sunday - Giada's crunchy parmesan chicken tenders on top of a spinach salad.
Monday -Italian baked chicken and pastina (from the freezer - I always make two of this dish)
Tuesday - Baked tilapia & sweet corn risotto (from the feezer - I made the risotto a few weeks ago) 
Wednesday - Chicken Dijonnaise (Williams Sonoma French cookbook)
Thursday  - Our son's birthday. The birthday person always gets to pick the meal the night of their birthday, & he's opted for going out for Greek food. :-) Smart boy.
Friday - Baked shells with pesto, mozzarella & meat sauce (from the freezer - I made this last week & it makes a huge quantity)
Saturday - Having a little family get together to celebrate my baby turning four. We're going out for pizza.
Sunday - leftover pizza (if there is any). If not, pepperoni casserole from the freezer.

3/12 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A - do you workout outside? How do you handle bad weather? I'm in Washington, so I'm learning that I'm pretty much going to have to suck it up if I want to run outside. :-) Today it's 45 and raining, & I'm rallying myself for my run. Good luck to me.

Weight = 154.4 - WOOO! In the 154s. Only 1.4 lbs toward my mini goal of my pre-second child weight. I'm almost there.

Food:
Breakfast:
spinach, egg, & feta on a piece of wheat bread - 250
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Lunch:
cottage cheese - 100
bowl of strawberries & blueberries - 100
small piece of pizza - 250

Dinner (out):
2 glasses of wine - 160
Side salad - 150
Bruschetta & Chicken - 300

Total calories = 1340
Fruit/Vegetables = 4/6

Workout = 20 minute walk/run - 1.5 miles

Friday, March 11, 2011

3/11 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A - what are you wearing today? Are you at home, the office, or somewhere else? I'm wearing dark skinny jeans, tall black boots, & a pink sweater. My office is very casual, so I can where whatever I want. I do try & pull it together a bit.

Weight = 155.2. Holding steady. Can't wait to break into the 154s. :-)

Food:
Breakfast:
oatmeal/apple pancake with 1/2 cup greek yogurt - 300
coffe + milk + fiber - 30

No snack (bigger breakfast today)

Lunch:
Spinach salad with grilled chicken, feta & cottage cheese (no dressing) - 275
pasta salad, hummus, pita - 150
frozen yogurt + mini cookies - 200

Dinner:
1 pc pizza - 300
Salad + light dressing - 50
wine - 120

Subtotal = 1425
Fruits/Vegetables = 3/6

Workout:
38 minutes run/walk = 3 miles.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

3/10 - Fitness & Nutrition Update

Weight = 155.2. No progress.

Q&A -

Food:
Breakfast:
1 fiber wrap + 1/2 chicken sausage + egg + spinach - 260
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Pre-workout snack:
Greek yogurt - 110

Lunch:
wrap + hummus + cheese + tomato + cucumber - 280
apple - 80
1 protein bar - 190

Dinner:
spinach salad with feta, cucumber, tomato, & balsamic chicken - 300
wine - 80

Total = 1330
Fruit/Vegetables - 1/6

Workout:
ran 1 mile + 25 minutes on the elliptical = 40 minutes of cardio
10 minutes of stretching.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

3/9 - Fitness & Nutrition

Q&A - Do you make smoothies? I'm trying to get into smoothies, & I've been experimenting with flavors. Current favorite is: splash of juice, greek yogurt, banana, & strawberries. If you're a smoothie fan, what are your favorite ingredients?

Weight = unknown. Will weigh in again tomorrow.

Food:
Breakfast:
Smoothie (1/4 c apple juice, 1/2 a greek yogurt cup, straberries, 1/2 a banana 1+c spinach) - 200
coffee + milk + fiber - 30

Snack:
1/2 luna bar - 95

Lunch:
almonds - 150
mini turkey sandwich & pasta salad - 250
cereal with milk - 300
Dinner:
crackers and peanut butter - 275

Total = 1400
Fruit/Vegetables = 4/5

Exercise - 30 minutes running - 2.57 miles. Woo!